Trigger & Content warnings: This podcast discusses the difficult topic of family, domestic, sexual and intimate partner violence within LGBTIQA+ communities. Some people might find the content of this podcast distressing.
Show notes
A quick note on terminology:
For this episode, we use the term LGBTIA+ when referring to older community members (generally 50+). This reflects the language many people in this cohort are most familiar and comfortable with, particularly given that terms like “queer” have historically been used as slurs.
We recognise that no single acronym can fully capture the diversity of genders, sexualities, bodies and experiences across our communities. You may also hear different acronym variations used across this episode or series. Our aim is to be as responsive as possible to language shifts across contexts, communities and generations.
In this episode of the Pride in Respect Podcast, host Dr Jack Farrugia speaks with Kedy Krystal and Paul about the experiences of older LGBTIA+ people and the ways family, domestic, sexual and intimate partner violence can show up across a lifetime.
Together, they explore how criminalisation, homophobia, transphobia, religious rejection, stigma, shame and service discrimination have shaped the lives of older LGBTIA+ people – and how these experiences can create barriers to safety, support and connection later in life.
Paul shares powerful lived-experience reflections on hiding who he was, losing friends after coming out, surviving intimate partner violence, navigating shame, and learning to trust his instincts. Kedy brings decades of experience in the domestic and family violence sector and speaks to the urgent need for aged care, health, legal and support services to better understand and respond to older LGBTIA+ people.
This conversation highlights why it is so important to recognise elder abuse, listen to older LGBTIA+ voices, and create safe pathways for people to speak about abuse without fear, shame or erasure.
In this episode, we discuss:
- The lifelong impact of criminalisation, homophobia and stigma
- How elder abuse can affect older LGBTIA+ people
- Why shame and silence can make it harder to seek help
- The fear many older LGBTIA+ people feel about aged care and support services
- How intimate partner violence can be hidden or normalised in LGBTIA+ relationships
- Why recognising abuse early matters
- How we can better support older LGBTIA+ people to live with dignity, safety and respect
If you are in immediate danger, call 000.
For 24/7 family and domestic violence counselling and support, contact 1800RESPECT on 1800 737 732.
LGBTIQA+ specialist FDV support is available through the Rainbow Sexual, Domestic and Family Violence Helpline on 1800 497 212.
In Western Australia, you can contact the Pride in Respect Specialist FDV Support Service on 0481 080 201.
For more information, support links and campaign resources, visit www.prideinrespect.org.au
About Pride in Respect
Pride in Respect is a community partnership between Living Proud, GRAI, Transfolk WA and WAAC, and generously funded by the Department of Communities.
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The Pride in Respect podcast is recorded on Whadjuk Noongar booja. We acknowledge and pay our respect to the Whadjuk people of the Noongar Nation and their elders past and present as the traditional custodians of this land. We also honour Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander LGBTIQA+ people including brother boys, sister girls and trans mob and recognise their resilience, strength and deep connection to country.