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My Story: JULIA

Pride in Respect | Lived Experience Stories: Julia

Julia shares her lived experience of long-term coercive control, family violence, post-separation abuse, and the different ways that abuse can continue even after a relationship has ended. Julia also reflects on how identity, stigma, small-town visibility and assumptions can be used as tools of control in LGBTIQA+ contexts.

Her story is a powerful reminder that leaving an abusive relationship does not always mean immediate safety, and how people using violence may continue to intimidate, monitor, threaten, isolate or manipulate victim-survivors long after the relationship is over.

This video is part of Pride in Respect, a campaign raising awareness of family, domestic, sexual and intimate partner violence in LGBTIQA+ communities.

If this story resonates with you, please know support is available.

Support services:

  • If you are in immediate danger, call 000
  • 1800RESPECT – 1800 737 732
  • Rainbow Sexual, Domestic and Family Violence Helpline – 1800 497 212
  • In Western Australia, Pride in Respect Specialist FDV Support Service – 0481 080 201

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